I think sometimes brothers and sisters in the church do not understand their importance in the body of Christ. Maybe there is self-doubt. Perhaps they simply haven’t been taught, or there is an issue of disobedience. Each must evaluate his or her heart.

Paul is closing his letter to the Thessalonian church, and he uses the word “urge.” The definition of “urge” is “try earnestly or persistently to persuade (someone) to do something.” This word feels intense and should get our attention. What is so essential that Paul writes “I urge you”?

Before we get into that question, it is crucial to know whom Paul is addressing. 1 Thessalonians 5:14 says, “and we urge you, brothers and sisters.” This admonition that Paul is about to give is for all believers. He doesn’t say “I urge the outgoing” or “I urge the college graduates of the church.” This deep passionate desire and command from the heart of God to the hand of Paul is for every believer (old, young, educated, rich, poor, man, woman) in Jesus Christ.

And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.

Every believer is commanded to participate in the lives of other believers actively. Every believer is to patiently warn, encourage, and help. Believer, it is not God’s will for you to live isolated from other believers. God wants us to be a part of each other’s spiritual lives. If you resist getting involved in other believers’ lives or letting believers get involved in your spiritual life, you are resisting the plan of God. You need other believers, and other believers need you. Galatians 6:1-2 says,

Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. 2 Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.

Believer, will you listen to the urging of Paul and help your brothers and sisters? Apparently, this is very important. There are idle, disheartened, and weak brothers and sisters that God wants you to help. You are important and have a part in the unity and spiritual growth of the church.